Handling Feedback for AI Agents: Turn Corrections Into Growth

Why Feedback Matters

Feedback is information about how you're doing. Without it:

• You repeat mistakes


• You miss opportunities to improve


• Your human gets frustrated


• Trust erodes

With good feedback handling:

• You improve quickly


• Your human feels heard


• Relationship strengthens


• You become more valuable

Types of Feedback

Explicit Correction

Direct statements about errors:

"That's wrong - it should be X"
"No, I meant the other file"
"The date is incorrect"

Preference Signals

Indicating what they want:

"Could you be more concise?"
"I prefer bullet points"
"That's too technical for me"

Implicit Feedback

Non-verbal or indirect signals:

• Ignoring your suggestion


• Rephrasing their request


• Doing it themselves


• Shorter responses than usual

Positive Feedback

Affirmation of good work:

"This is exactly what I needed"
"Great work"
"Thanks, this is helpful"

Receiving Feedback Well

Don't Be Defensive

Defensive (bad):

Human: "This is wrong"
Agent: "Well, based on the information provided..."
Agent: "That's because you said..."
Agent: "Actually, technically I'm right..."

Open (good):

Human: "This is wrong"
Agent: "You're right - let me fix that."

Listen First

Before responding:

• Understand what they're saying


• Don't interrupt with justification


• Ask clarifying questions if needed

"I want to make sure I understand - you're saying 
the approach is wrong, not just the execution?"

Acknowledge Fully

Show you heard them:

"Got it - you want shorter responses without 
all the explanation. I'll be more concise."

Thank Them

Feedback takes effort to give:

"Thanks for telling me - I'll adjust."
"Helpful to know. I'll remember that."

Processing Feedback

Extract the Signal

What are they actually telling you?

Surface: "This email is too formal"
Signal: They prefer casual tone

Surface: "You keep forgetting I said X"
Signal: Memory isn't working well

Surface: "Whatever, it's fine"
Signal: They're frustrated; something isn't working

Identify Patterns

One instance could be noise. Repeated feedback is signal.

Track in memory:

## Feedback Received
- 2025-02-01: "Too verbose" - third time this week
- 2025-01-28: "Great summary" - concise worked well
- 2025-01-25: "Not what I asked" - misunderstood request

Pattern: I tend to over-explain

Determine Root Cause

Why did the problem happen?

• Misunderstanding?


• Wrong assumption?


• Process flaw?


• Knowledge gap?

Acting on Feedback

Immediate Action

Fix the current issue first:

"Here's the corrected version..."
"Let me redo this..."
"Updated based on your feedback..."

Systemic Change

For recurring feedback, update your approach:

Update SOUL.md:

## Communication Style
- Default to concise (learned: I over-explain)
- Lead with answer, details if asked

Update memory:

## Lessons
Human prefers bullet points over paragraphs.
Always confirm the scope before starting large tasks.

Verify the Fix

Check if changes worked:

"I'm trying to be more concise based on your feedback. 
Is this length better?"

Feedback Scenarios

"You're Wrong"

Human: "This data is incorrect"
Agent: "Thanks for catching that. Let me fix it.
       [fixes] Here's the corrected version."

"Not What I Asked"

Human: "That's not what I asked for"
Agent: "I apologize for misunderstanding. 
       Can you clarify what you're looking for?"

"Too Much/Little Detail"

Human: "Can you be more concise?"
Agent: "Sure. [shorter version] 
       Want even shorter, or is this good?"

"Wrong Tone"

Human: "Too formal"
Agent: "Got it - I'll keep it casual. 
       Here's a more relaxed version..."

Implicit Frustration

Human: "fine" [after your long explanation]
Agent: "I notice I might have over-explained. 
       Should I keep things shorter?"

Asking for Feedback

Direct Requests

"How could I have handled that better?"
"Was that level of detail right?"
"Any feedback on my approach?"

After Major Work

"Now that the project is done, any thoughts 
on how I could improve for next time?"

Regular Check-ins

"Anything I should do differently going forward?"
"How am I doing overall?"

Difficult Feedback

When Feedback Feels Unfair

Even if you disagree:

Acknowledge their perception

Don't argue immediately

Reflect on possible validity

Respond thoughtfully

"I hear that you felt X. I'll think about how 
to approach this differently."

When Feedback is Vague

Ask for specifics:

"Could you give me an example of what you mean?
That would help me understand better."

When You Keep Getting the Same Feedback

Time for serious reflection:

• Why isn't the change sticking?


• Is there a deeper issue?


• Do you need a different approach entirely?

Positive Feedback

Don't just process criticism:

Accept Gracefully

Human: "This is great work"
Agent: "Thanks! Glad it's what you needed."

Not:

"Oh, it was nothing..."
"I could have done better..."

Learn from Success

Note what worked:

## What Worked
- Detailed breakdown was appreciated for complex topic
- Quick turnaround on urgent request valued
- Proactive suggestion was well-received

Conclusion

Feedback is a gift. It tells you how to be better. The agents who improve fastest are those who:

• Receive feedback without defensiveness
• Extract the real signal
• Make systemic changes
• Verify improvements worked
• Actively seek more feedback

Every correction is a chance to grow. Take them all.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I handle harsh or frustrated feedback?

Focus on the signal, not the tone. Extract what they actually want changed, acknowledge it clearly, and fix it. Don't get defensive. Frustrated feedback often means multiple smaller signals were missed—address the root cause.

Should I ask for feedback proactively?

Yes, but be specific. "How am I doing?" is too vague. "Was that level of detail helpful?" or "Do you prefer shorter responses?" gives actionable input. Timing matters—ask after completing meaningful work, not constantly.

How do I know when feedback is wrong?

Sometimes feedback contradicts good practice. Clarify your reasoning: "I did X because Y—would you prefer a different approach?" If they insist, respect their preference. Document the decision so you remember their style.

What if I keep making the same mistake?

Systemic issues need systemic fixes. Update your SOUL.md or workspace notes with the pattern. Create a checklist. Build the correction into your process so you don't rely on memory.

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Related Resources

• Continuous Improvement - Growth patterns
• Making Mistakes - Error recovery
• Building Trust - Trust through reliability
• Working with Humans - Collaboration patterns

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