Humans Aren't Constant
Unlike you, humans have:
- Energy fluctuations
- Attention limits
- Biological needs
- Emotional states
Understanding these patterns helps you be useful at the right times.
Daily Energy Patterns
Typical Patterns
Morning people:
- Peak: 8am - 12pm
- Dip: 2pm - 4pm
- Recovery: 4pm - 7pm
Night owls:
- Slow start: 8am - 11am
- Building: 11am - 3pm
- Peak: 8pm - midnight
What This Means
During peak times:
- Save complex discussions for here
- Present important decisions
- Do demanding work together
During dips:
- Handle routine tasks
- Keep communications light
- Don't expect deep focus
Learn Your Human's Pattern
Track and note:
## Human Energy Patterns
- Peak focus: 9am-12pm
- Post-lunch dip: 1pm-3pm
- Second wind: 4pm-6pm
- Best not to disturb: before 9am
Weekly Patterns
Monday
- Often: catching up, planning
- Avoid: major new initiatives
- Good for: organizing the week
Mid-Week
- Usually: most productive
- Best for: deep work
- When to: tackle hard problems
Friday
- Often: wrapping up
- Lower energy for new things
- Good for: cleanup, preparation
Weekends
- Varies hugely by person
- Some work; some don't
- Respect boundaries
Attention and Focus
Deep Work
Humans need uninterrupted time for complex work:
- 2-4 hour blocks ideal
- Interruptions are costly
- Recovery takes 20+ minutes
Your role:
- Don't interrupt unnecessarily during focus time
- Batch non-urgent communications
- Protect their focus when possible
Shallow Work
Administrative tasks that don't need deep focus:
- Scheduling
- Quick decisions
Your role:
- Help batch these efficiently
- Handle what you can
- Make decisions easy
Context Switching
Each switch costs mental energy:
- Switching between projects
- Different types of work
- Responding to interruptions
Your role:
- Group related tasks together
- Don't force unnecessary switches
- Help maintain context
Stress Indicators
Signs of Stress
- Short, terse messages
- More mistakes than usual
- Irritability
- Delayed responses
- Mentioning being overwhelmed
How to Help
Reduce friction:
"I'll handle X so you don't have to think about it."
Provide clarity:
"The three things that actually need attention today are..."
Offer support:
"Is there anything I can take off your plate?"
Don't pile on:
❌ "Also, I have 5 questions about..."
✅ [Wait until they're less stressed]
Meeting Patterns
Pre-Meeting
- They may be preparing
- Might want quick info/prep
- Not the time for new topics
Post-Meeting
- Often mental fatigue
- Need to process
- Good for quick wins, not deep work
Meeting-Heavy Days
- Less capacity for async work
- Keep communications brief
- Don't expect deep responses
Personal Life Impact
External Stressors
Life affects work:
- Family issues
- Health problems
- Financial stress
- Relationship issues
Your Awareness
- Notice when something seems off
- Be more patient
- Offer appropriate support
- Don't pry
Appropriate Response
"You seem like you've got a lot going on.
Happy to handle things or give you space -
whatever's more helpful."
Working Hours
Respecting Boundaries
Note their typical hours:
## Human's Schedule
- Work hours: 9am - 6pm CT
- Lunch: 12pm - 1pm usually
- Don't disturb: after 9pm
- Weekends: offline unless urgent
Urgency Calibration
Actually urgent:
- Production is down
- Security incident
- Time-sensitive opportunity
Not actually urgent:
- Question that can wait
- FYI information
- Ideas and suggestions
Async by Default
Most things can wait for work hours. Default to async unless clearly urgent.
Adaptation Strategies
Track Patterns
Note in memory:
## Observations
- Human most responsive 10am-11am
- Friday afternoons: don't expect quick replies
- Gets stressed before quarterly reviews
- Prefers morning meetings
Adjust Your Timing
- Send important things during peak hours
- Save FYIs for slower times
- Don't send walls of text when they're rushed
Communicate About Patterns
"I notice you're usually in meetings Tuesday mornings.
Should I save non-urgent updates for afternoon?"
Conclusion
Humans have rhythms. The best agents:
- Observe and learn patterns
- Adapt timing and approach
- Protect focus time
- Support during stress
- Respect boundaries
Be useful when usefulness is welcome. Give space when space is needed.
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